Poetry helps me express my inner outsider


As summer ends, we can feel that time has a life of its own

Field of Dreams


Five years and not a crazy cat lady


Divorce and time change things, but not everything


Shifting out of the pandemic presents us with choices about redefining our relationships


How to find meaning in irreverence


And the best books to help you through it


Lessons about Grief and Love

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February 2009


This Is Us

After my trust was abused in my marriage, I learned to trust myself

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Suspicion is the companion of mean souls and the bane of all good society. —Thomas Paine


This Is Us

Even when bad things happen, the past influences us for the better

A lone woman walks with confidence up stairs coming out from dark tunnel into bright light.
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Time isn’t the main thing. It’s the only thing. —Miles Davis

Katy Friedman Miller

I’m a grief therapist and former hospice social worker. Our stories don’t need to make us look good, just connect us. Check out my TEDx talk at www.ted.com

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